The Duggars

So I have been feeling for awhile that I needed to make this post.

Everyone or almost everyone loves watching the Duggar family. I have found myslef on occasion sitting and enjoying their company a time here or there. They do offer some excellent advice and they are such great encouragers for homeschooling. HOWEVER!!!  It has been brought to my attention recently that a lot of homeschoolers tend to watch the Duggar’s for insight and encouragement but not only this, they are looking for answers that maybe they can not find locally or within resources.

Listen, I enjoy the Duggar family. I am not knocking them by no means. At this time I simply reach out to each homeschool family, including our new coming homeschooling families.

Please understand that you are not going to find all of your answers about homeschooling by watching one family. The one thing I am going to stress here is this:

  • No one family schools the same! What works best for an other family is not always going to work the same for yours.

Just about every homeschool veteran will tell you this same thing. Don’t try mimicking what other families are doing in their day. Learn from what they are doing and try to impliment your own schedule, curriculum adjustments and etc. This is where I highly recommend expeirimenting to find what works best for your family. You are a homeschooler, yes it is ok to experiment to find what works best. We all have done it and still do!

Above all, If you are a new homeschooler, I highly recommend the following:

  • If your child has been in a public school system, You will need to do an evaulation (diagnostic) test to deteremine exactly where your child is at in school. This should be done soon after the school withdraw. You should not buy any curriculum until this test is done! The results of this test will help you determine the grade level your child is in, they type of curriculum that is best for your child based on where they are performance wise and what their learning style is.   (You can buy these tests online, test your child online or take your child to any tutor center to be tested. In most cases their will be a fee. Some curriculum distrobutors offer testing also.)
  • Test each child for their learning style. There are loads of FREE tests on line also linked to this site. (You can find these links attached in the side column under K-12 Learning Styles, Testing, Evaluations & More).

Why should I test for Learning Style? Why not!?  Testing for learning styles will help you to properly teach your child as well as help you better teach them. You will be able to speak to them not over their head in a far off corner.

(resources:  http://www.home-school-curriculum-advisor.com/home-schooling-method.html  &  http://homeschooling.about.com/od/methods/Homeschool_Methods_Finding_a_Method_thats_Right_for_You.htm )

  • Research all curriculum of interest. Ask questions before purchasing. Learn all you can about the curriculum you are interested in. Understand that one type of curriculum may not be understandable to each of your children. Again you will have to find curriculum that best meets the learning style.  (Read my curriculum buying posts and tips by clicking the noted links:

 https://homeizcool101.wordpress.com/2010/07/18/curriculum-buying-tips/  ,   https://homeizcool101.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/curriculum-note/  and  https://homeizcool101.wordpress.com/2011/08/26/why-is-curriculum-so-expensive/ )

Above all, always remember: What works for one will not always work for you or your family. Advice is great. Take as much as you can get. However, understand that it is just advice and you are going to have to find what works best for your family. This is where creativity comes in to play and tons of experimenting.

Structure is good, but make sure you are finding time to have a little fun. Try putting yourself in your childs shoes for school. Are they bored? Could you sit doing nothing but book reading, workbook pages, one after the other? I have found and will always stand by that ALL children no matter what age, learn well with some sort of hands on approach. I hear it all the time. School is not supposed to be fun! Who ever made that rule was a nut! School is not supposed to be BORING! Yes we can have some fun schooling but we do need to be serious also. If your kids are fun, you need to lose some of the strict routine and find some fun. Crafts, Hands on active lessons, experiments, exploring indoors/outdoors, field trips, etc… 

Around Thanksgiving we usually do a lesson on Pioneers, Colonial living, Native Americans. We dont just do a lesson, WE LIVE the time. Make a recipe of that time. A hat, outfit, do a craft and include the lesson. Have some fun with your kids. I assure you, they will remember the fun with mom/dad during their schooling.

The hardest thing about being a homeschooling parent is: Not only are you the parent you are the teacher, the principle and the parent combined. That doesn’t mean you want to make your kids miserable, be demanding, bossy or make your kids hate you. You want to be stern parent/educator but also show them that learning can be fun.

So if you enjoy watching the Duggars. Hey that is great. I do to. BUT! Please evaluate your reasoning in why you are watching them. If you are watching to mimick their lifestyle you may not be aware of  what struggles you are setting yourself up for later on. They have great resources to offer, tips and advice. A lot of us veterans do. However, remember we can only offer you advice and encourage you to find what will work best for your family by experimenting. 

Some of us like lapbooking, notebooking, some of us don’t! You can find more out about these resources in the side columns.   

Happy Schooling!

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4 Comments»

  A.Roddy wrote @

I am not really a Duggar fan but agree if you are,it doesn’t mean what works for them works for you. The Duggars are Christian Fundamentalists who use Advanced Training Institutes’s Wisdom Booklets as part of their education. ATI is ran by Bill Gothard who is not an educator or child expert. This is nothing personal against the Duggars themselves or religious based curriculum but I can’t help but be concerned for these kids’ education. Thee are many things no disclosed on the show. To make a long story short, recoveringgrace.org has info on those who grew up like the Duggars. More on Bill Gothard and the Duggar’s beliefs
rethinkingvisionforum.wordpress.com
http://www.pfo.org/bgothard.htm
http://bibleandscience.com/otherviews/gothard.htm

  Homeschool101 wrote @

Thank you for your reply. You bring out some very good points. I believe every parent should do their own research before choosing any curriculum to use.

Ensuring that the curriculum is not only going to meet the needs of the child but also that the curriculum is teaching what they believe, whether it is Christian Viewed or Secular Viewed.

Alot of good points, that we as a parent and homeschooler, we need to be sure we are checking out ahead of time and just not taking the view of a reality TV show.

I hope that other homeschoolers especially those new to homeschooling consider this as well.

Thanks again for your reply.
Happy Schooling!

  nordacad wrote @

I love the post Tiff and agree 100 % all of us homeschooling families are different. We can get ideas and fellowship from others but you MUST learn and adjust to your own families needs. TY for this post it is perfect for new homeschoolers to read.

  Homeschool101 wrote @

Thanks for stopping in. Im sorry, I have been off a few days, so took me a little longer to get back to you. Have a super great week.


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